Life Coaching for Women: The No. 1 Reason Why Your Life Still Sucks and How You Can Create the Life You Want Now

To be clear, I’m not a consultant or an expert.

I’m a life and business coach, and I’m blissfully unattached to being right or wrong in my work, or to the outcome you want to create in your life or business.

I’m here to hold you to the greatest version of yourself no matter what, even in those moments when you tell me every reason why you cannot be or do that thing, or in the moments that you forget how awesome you really are!

Yes, I hold you as powerful.

I’m here to support your overall life and business vision so that you don’t disappear into that small version of yourself – the one you have perfected over the years; shrinking to fit others’ expectations of who you should be, what you should be doing with your life, and how grateful you should feel about their “well-meaning” intentions for your life.

Yes, I hold you as powerful.

I’m here to open your eyes to the self-sabotaging behavior – those internal beliefs and limitations that stop you from being everything you were created to be.  You might even lose the stories, create a whole new mindset and soar higher than you ever dreamed.

Yes, You CAN!

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A wise person told me that a mind is like a parachute. It only works when it is open.  Ok, so it was one of those romantic holiday movies on Hallmark, but the words are true.  I invite you to consider that a growth mindset is the key to personal development and exponential growth in career, business and relationship.

A fixed mindset is __________. Feel free to complete the sentence.

Let’s talk about one or two of the reasons why your life seems like it sucks.  Sucks = technical term.

Everyone in your world admires you, but you know you’re playing small. You stopped trying years ago because your small fan club believes in you, admires you and consistently strokes your ego. But deep inside you’re stuck. You’ve lost your way. You’ve lost your direction. Your Why. Your What For.

You’re even sadder that along the way no one has noticed. You’ve become the most interesting person in every room. You’ve become the smartest person in the room. You can run your business/write your Motion for Summary Judgment/run that workshop/draft that brief/teach that class/[insert your current reality] in your sleep.

You’re not challenged, yet you don’t have incentive to grow because you’re stuck in your pseudo comfort zone.

If you’re honest with yourself, you’ll realize you really hate this space.

So, what has you stuck?

Here are a few reasons my clients work with me.

I support business women + entrepreneurs who want to create 6-figure+ businesses.  I help them create ideal clients, confidently charge premium prices, and build a thriving life, business and relationships.


I work with Coaches and Consultants who want to shift their limiting beliefs around money so that they can create the lives they want . Are you a CEO, Coach or Consultant who wants to confidently create ideal clients, charge premium prices for the value you provide, and build a highly profitable business that makes big impact?


What about you?  What results could  take your life to the next level?

It’s 2018. You’ve been putting off your life for the last 10 years.

When x/y/z happens then you’ll do a/b/c. You’re standing on the sidelines looking at your life. And you’re bored.

What do you think is predictable from this place? What will December 31, 2018 look like for you?

What do you want to be different? What do you want to stay the same? Who has the power to make that choice for you? Who is the expert on your life?

What’s in the way of you stepping into your own life? What will it take? A doctor’s dire diagnosis? A car accident? An out of this world experience?

Or maybe you might just decide that you’re absolutely worth it.  The answer is in your heart.

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What’s next for you? In the quiet moments of your life, you feel like a fraud. It’s the flip side of the imposter syndrome. You’re worried tha someone may find out….. and gasp, even call you out on it.  But guess what?  You don’t have to worry.  You can relax even more deeply into your comfort zone.  They are so bound by their own blind spots that they can’t even see you.

But its not serving you. You’re so damn bored that you go out into the world and create magnificent manic, panic and breakdowns so that you can swoop in, save yourself and claim another pseudo victory. On a good day you can run four businesses, spend quality time with your children, cook a gourmet meal and make your clients feel like royalty. (But this is not about me).

Yet you’re dying inside. No one knows or even cares that you’re running on auto. Because if you truly show up for yourself, your family, your clients, your business, your job, your hobby, your purpose………………. the brilliance that you create will scare the sh*t out of even you.

What will you do?  Keep hiding or boldly choose what you want.

Are you ready to Go get your life?

I invite you to consider stepping into your life today. There is no right or wrong way to create and live your best life. You get to decide what you want, when you want it and how you want it.

If you decide that a Free 60 minute consultation session with me will get your juices flowing, then, Let’s chat!

Visit to get in touch! I look forward to hearing from you.

I invite you to consider what is possible for you when you choose your best life yet.



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Want to connect? Email me at mimidabo@lifecoachforwomen to share your story, your perspective, your comments or your questions.

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Peace and Love,
Your Life and Business Coach
MiMi Dabo, MBA, CPA, JD
I work with women business owners, life coaches and entrepreneurs to create soul-happy 6-figure+ businesses, while working less hours, and living the life of their dreams.

Ready to create or grow a 6-figure+ business that gives you the FLEXIBILITY to have fun, work less and make a difference so that you can ENJOY more FREEDOM, TIME, MONEY, ABUNDANCE and IMPACT?
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