How do I make someone fall in love with me?
If you’re wondering what this has to do with your High-Ticket Coaching or Consulting business, I promise this topic is ALL about your High-Ticket Coaching, Consulting or Service Based business. Stick with me for a minute.
If I had just $1 for every woman entrepreneur who asks this question, we’d all be richer than Amazon’s Jeff Bezos.
You’re probably thinking, I’ve never asked how to make anyone fall with me. And I say, yes you have. For many of us, every single day in our business.
I’ll start with a story about this article. Last week, my 16-year-old niece called to ask me what she said was the most important question of her life. She wanted to know how to make Nathan fall in love with her over the summer so that they can be a couple when school starts in August.
I didn’t know what to say. Especially after she added, “and aunt MiMi, please don’t get all coachy coachy on me.” We talked a bit, and we came up with 3 powerful ways for how to make someone fall in love with you.
I’ll get to those in a minute. (Feel free to scroll below for the 3 powerful ways if that’s all you need to know today).
But first, here’s the BIG reason why women entrepreneurs want to know how to make someone fall in love with them within 30 days. Have you ever asked yourself or your business coach any of these about creating High-Ticket Clients for your High-Ticket Coaching or Consulting Packages or Offers?
How do I attract my ideal High-Ticket Clients?
How do I find High-Ticket Clients who want to work with me?
How can I find High-Ticket Clients who can pay me?
How do I get my current High-Ticket Clients to renew their Coaching or Consulting Contracts?
Each time you ask how to create ideal High-Ticket Clients for your business, you’re asking how to make someone fall in love with you, or in your case, How to make High-Ticket Clients fall in love with you.
Can you imagine creating a High-Ticket Sales funnels that has your ideal High-Ticket Clients pouring out just for you? Keep reading.
That’s what every women entrepreneurs wants – Raving Fans.
High-Ticket Clients who easily find you and immediately hire you.
High-Ticket Clients who CREATE EXPONENTIAL RESULTS, and see the CHANGES and Shifts they’ve created during their work with you, and AUTOMATICALLY renew their contracts to keep working with you (if you believe it’s in their best interest. Sometimes it’s best to let them fly solo for a bit).
High-Ticket Clients who fall in love with you – they fall in love with the exponential results they create from working with you and REFER other ideal High-Ticket Clients to you.
You get the point. Now, let’s deep dive into how to make someone aka Ideal High-Ticket Clients fall in love with you.
How to Make Someone Fall in Love – Be Clear
Be Crystal Clear. Know your WHY. And the WHY behind each WHY. Identify what gets to happen when you find the “love” or when you sign on the ideal High-Ticket Clients you’re looking for.
Find your Business G-Spot and Get crystal clear on WHO and WHAT you really want in love, in life and in business. You see, once my niece got really clear on who and what she wanted, she realized that she didn’t really want Nathan and our conversation shifted to her real desire.
What she really wanted was what she thought dating Nathan would mean about her and how it would make her feel. She’s feeling quite insecure about going through puberty right now, and she thought dating Nathan would mean she’s beautiful and make her feel pretty, happy and secure. But after a few minutes, she realized that she doesn’t even really like Nathan. He’s not her type (she says). He is just the guy that most of her friends think is cute and she didn’t want to feel left out.
Same goes for your High-Ticket Clients, Packages, Marketing and Sales. Be super clear about your intention for your business. How many times have you tried to chase clients you don’t even feel aligned to work with? How many times have you wasted hours scrolling on social media because you think you have to be on social media?
How many times have you launched a program only because you saw someone else do it? How many times have you copied a business coach’s template because she said it was the holy grail business strategy that would help you create $90K in 9 days? The list could go on.
Back to crystal clarity in your business.
Who do you want to work with?
What results do you want to support them to create?
What is your profit goal for each week, month, quarter and the year?
What is your income goal for each week, month, quarter, and the year?
What is your High-Ticket Sales goal for each week, month, quarter, and the year?
What is your High-Ticket Client goal for each week, month, quarter, and the year?
Are you clear on where you want to be in 6 months, in 1 year, in 18 months or in 3 years?
Once you’re crystal clear on who and what you want, you’re able to make better decisions. This clarity gives the universe permission to open up and provide for you. The key is to be kind, compassionate and generous with yourself during this process. And be ABSOLUTELY relentless in filtering out everything that is LESS than who and what you want. Create high standards from Love.
How to Make Someone Fall in Love – Be You
Simply be yourself. Have Faith to believe you already have everything you’re looking for.
This sounds very simple and maybe even trite, but I cannot tell you how many women who want to create love or in our business case, ideal High-Ticket Clients try everything NOT to be themselves. The only way to get someone to truly fall in love with you is to be the AUTHENTIC you. It gives someone the opportunity to choose you.
How does this apply to your High-Ticket Coaching or Consulting business?
Show Up and Put the real you in your marketing message. Be real and speak to your WHO clients; to the real High-Ticket Clients you want to work with. Not the clients you think you should settle for. Not the clients you think you’re qualified to serve. When you settle, you get the pain-in-the a55 clients or the pain-in-the-a55 relationship. You create your own reality.
And. This one’s important for your magnetic marketing message. Don’t copy someone’s tone or messaging. Speak your truth from your heart. Let them hear your voice in your messaging so that they choose and not the person you’re copying. They’ll find out in the end because you can only pretend to be someone else for so long.
You cannot create High-Ticket Clients and the profits you desire if you’re not aligned with the people your “fake” self is attracting.
How to Make Someone Fall in Love – Choose You
No one can give you what you already have. You’re the leader of your life. Love, the High-Ticket Clients, the Body you want? They’re NOT out there somewhere yonder. You get to create whatever you want.
No one can truly fall in love with you if you don’t love yourself. Give yourself the thing you’re looking for, so that you have enough of it to share. Take care of yourself. Pour into yourself and Love yourself.
Create self-care practices that support you to love and honor yourself every single day.
Choose the identity of the best version of you and Be, act and create like her. Like you’re already more than enough and you’re worthy and deserving of the love, the client, the body or whomever you’re hoping to make fall in love with you.
How does this apply to your High-Ticket business? Same. Choose You.
Up level your money mindset to release the impostor syndrome and not enough money blocks. When you start living, breathing and being the identity of your best self, everything falls into place for your business.
Each time you choose imposter syndrome, you’re NOT choosing you.
Each time you put your focus on your competition, you’re saying that you’re not enough. You’re saying I choose them over me.
Each time you procrastinate, you’re saying I’m not worthy of being or creating the thing. You’re confirming that you don’t deserve to create the profits, income or impact you want.
Each time you under price or undercharge, you’re saying you don’t deserve to make money.
Each time you hide and play small, you’re saying the work you do is not important.
So, next time you’re wondering how to find more clients, or worrying about how to attract ideal High-Ticket Clients, choose you first.
When you choose yourself, you’ll create boundaries and get clear on WHO you work with and be specific on WHAT you support your clients to create.
And this clarity will empower you to create marketing that speaks ONLY to the High-Ticket Clients you want to work with. You’ll let go of wishy-washy messaging that speaks to everyone or to only those clients you believe you’re qualified to serve.
Choosing You and the best version of YOU is a powerful energy that trumps the energy of waiting for the thing to happen, swimming in the delay, sitting in the procrastination and dying in the stalling. That’s just doubt and fear.
Create the energy you want and deserve by betting on you.
It’s not how hard you’re trying to create your ideal High-Ticket Clients, Profits, Impact or Income, it’s who you’re being what you’re trying.
The Benefits of Clarity, Being You and Choosing You
You step out in Faith and stand in your feminine power – make it easy to receive money, love and the life you want.
You create the freedom to stop chasing Clients.
You create the freedom to be healthy, wealthy, rich and enjoy time flexibility.
You create new High-Ticket Sales funnels of incoming High-Ticket Clients because your messaging positions you to be the obvious choice for them.
You rise above the competition.
You up level your money mindset and inner confidence.
You streamline how you work with clients with premium High-Ticket packages that support your clients to shrink time and create exponential results.
You create better results in your business and your clients create a better Return on their Investment in your services.
You make it a No Brainer to say YES to working with you aka making someone fall in love with you.
And if all else fails, dance to Meghan Trainor’s song “Me too” – if I was you I’d wanna be me too. Right?!!
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Cheers to letting it be easy! MiMi Dabo, High-Ticket Business Coach & Money Mindset Expert www.highticketbusinesscoach.com.